If we are trying to find loopholes in the word of wisdom or other parts of the gospel, then we should reevaluate our motives.
Priesthood responsibilities performed in the home are by choice, not by assignment.
“It is our attention to our daily duties that makes us men.” (Brigham Young, Quoted by Dean Jessee, Letters of Brigham Young to his Sons, pp. 305–6.)
Don’t burden our families with the stress of work.
“As soon as we learn the true relationship in which we stand toward God (namely, God is our Father, and we are his children), then at once prayer becomes natural and instinctive on our part” (Bible Dictionary, “Prayer,” 752)
41 And moreover, I would desire that ye should consider on the blessed and happy state of those that keep the commandments of God. For behold, they are blessed in all things, both temporal and spiritual; and if they hold out faithful to the end they are received into heaven, that thereby they may dwell with God in a state of never-ending happiness. O remember, remember that these things are true; for the Lord God hath spoken it.
Sometimes blessings for obedience are not tangible. Sometimes it is simple being happy.
Mosiah 2:1717 And behold, I tell you these things that ye may learn wisdom; that ye may learn that when ye are in the service of your fellow beings ye are only in the service of your God.