Sunday, November 01, 2015

Stake Conference This Week at Northridge Stake Layton Utah 1 November 2015

General Session of Stake Conference
A brother spoke to us about his experience with his family history work. He shared strong promptings he had one by one about various family members that he didn't realize were ready for work to be done. One was his grandparents. I thought about grandfather and how I did not get to do his work since my parents submitted them to the general temple years ago. None of our family participated in his work, except a sealing to my dad and a sealing to my step grandma.

A new member of the Bountiful temple presidency and his wife spoke to us.

Proper activities engaged in at inappropriate times are sin.

“By works was his faith made holy. “- Unknown author

God help us to be grateful for our blessings, never to be guilty of the sin of ingratitude, and to instill this same gratitude into the lives of our children. “ (Lloyd P George, “Gratitude”, April 1994 General Conference)

Think more faithfully about keeping the Sabbath day holy.

Friday, October 30, 2015

Stake Conference This Week at Northridge Stake Layton Utah 30 October 2015

Adult Session of Stake Conference
Elder Peter S Evans of the Seventy presided at the meeting.
The Lord is bringing people to Utah to learn about the gospel. We should pay attention to our neighborhood for ways we can serve our neighbors.

“Question: Why do you feel so strongly about family councils?
           
“Elder Ballard: There has never been a time when the world was in greater need of the strength and security that are best sown and cultivated in the deep, fertile soil of family love. The family is under heavy attack from antagonists bent on extinguishing this powerful source of light in a darkening world. Successful families have a wide assortment of tools, and one of the most useful tools is the family council.“ (Ensign June 2003, “Family Councils: A Conversation with Elder and Sister Ballard”)

Sunday, October 25, 2015

Church Services This Week at Ridge Crest Ward Northridge Stake Layton Utah 25 October 2015

Sacrament Service 

The stake young men presidency spoke to us.


One of the speakers talked about the Duty to God program.


Fulfilling your duty to God is a lifelong pursuit.


Doctrine and Covenants section 84


Another speaker talked a little about the American civil war and the battle to defend our agendas vs the battle to defend what is right. There were examples of both of these on both sides of the American civil war.


Elder Jeffrey R Holland priesthood session 2011
As President Boyd K. Packer taught this morning, Satan cannot directly take a life. That is one of many things he cannot do. But apparently his effort to stop the work will be reasonably well served if he can just bind the tongue of the faithful.


Alma 53:18-21
 18 Now behold, there were two thousand of those young men, who entered into this covenant and took their weapons of war to defend their country.
 19 And now behold, as they never had hitherto been a disadvantage to the Nephites, they became now at this period of time also a great support; for they took their weapons of war, and they would that Helaman should be their leader.
 20 And they were all young men, and they were exceedingly valiant for courage, and also for strength and activity; but behold, this was not all—they were men who were true at all times in whatsoever thing they were entrusted.
 21 Yea, they were men of truth and soberness, for they had been taught to keep the commandments of God and to walk uprightly before him.
The strippling warriors had not been to war before. They were not hardened warriors, but they did not fear because they had faith in the Lord and faith in the faith of their mothers.


Sunday School
My teaching partner’s lesson on developing and keeping up a relationship with the savior.


Elders Quorum
Teachings of Presidents of the Church; Ezra Taft Benson lesson 20 Feed My Sheep
The lesson talked about a fellow that was not active in church and he was called to be Elders Quorum president.   The guy commented that he would square his life with the Lord and accept the calling.


I find when I am called to a calling in the Church I always feel like I need to strengthen my life in some way to do it.


Youth Fireside
John Hilton III and his wife Lonnie spoke to us


Girls should expect respect and learn to accept the respect.  Do not be haughty when expecting respect and accept it gracefully.


For you, my dear friends, the sky is the limit. You can be excellent in every way. You can be first class. There is no need for you to be a scrub. Respect yourself. Do not feel sorry for yourself. Do not dwell on unkind things others may say about you. Particularly, pay no attention to what some boy might say to demean you. He is no better than you. In fact, he has already belittled himself by his actions. Polish and refine whatever talents the Lord has given you. Go forward in life with a twinkle in your eye and a smile on your face, but with great and strong purpose in your heart. Love life and look for its opportunities, and forever and always be loyal to the Church.“ (President Gordon B Hinckley, “How Can I Become the Woman of Whom I Dream?”, April 2001 General Conference)


“Girls, you have an equally important role.  Remember the wayward woman we discussed earlier?  Your job is to keep your brother from being led astray by her charms.  Please be aware of how easily your actions and glances can stir up lust in a guy’s mind.


“You may not realize this, but we guys most commonly struggle with our eyes.  I think many girls are innocently unaware of the difficulty a guy has in remaining pure when looking at a girl who is dressed immodestly.  Now, I don’t want to dictate your wardrobe, but honestly speaking, I would be blessed if girls’s considered more than fashion when shopping for clothes.  Yes, guys are responsible for maintaining self-control, but you can help by refusing to wear clothing designed to attract attention to your body.


“I know the world tells you that if you have a nice body, you should show it off.  And we men have only helped feed this mentality.  But I think you can play a part in reversing this trend.  A single mom who had recently rededicated her life to Christ told me, ‘I went through my closet and got rid of anything that might have caused a brother in the Lord to stumble.  I asked God to forgive me and to help me protect the purity of those around me.’  Aly from Wisconsin wrote, “I think I’ll have to get rid of over half my wardrobe, because much of what I have is too revealing or tempts me to look at me with impure thoughts.’


“Are you willing to be that radical?  My friend Janelle asks her dad to evaluate every outfit she buys.  She wants a godly man’s opinion of whether or not it’s modest.  It’s not always easy.  There have been many times her dad asked her to return items.  But she doesn’t complain--even in the summer, when it seems impossible to find a modest pair of shorts!  She wants to honor God.


“I know many girls who would look great in shorter skirts or tighter blouses, and they know it.  But they choose to dress modestly.  They take responsibility of guarding their brothers’ eyes.  To these women and other like them, I’m grateful.” (Josh Harris, The book “I Kissed Dating Goodbye”)


If you have to ask this question “is this outfit too…? “  then it probably is.   Whether it is too tight, too short, too wrinkly.


Is there anything in your life that is trapping you the you need to let go?


As we visit with young adults all over the church often they will ask, ‘Well what are the characteristics I should look for in a future spouse?’  – As though they have some checklist of  ‘I need to find someone who has these three or four or five things.’  And I rather forcefully say to them, ‘You are so arrogant –  to think that you are some catch and that you want someone else who has these five things for you.  If you found somebody who had these three or four or five characteristics that you’re looking for what makes you think they’d want to marry you?’
The list is not for evaluating someone else, the list is for you, for me, and what I or you need to become.  And so if there are three primary characteristics that I hope to find in an eternal companion, then those are the three things I oughta be working to become. – Then it will be attractive to someone who has those things.  So my advice is you’re not on a shopping spree looking for the greatest value with a series of characteristics.  You become what you hope your spouse will be and you’ll have a greater likelihood of finding that person.” ( “Conversations: Episode 1:Elder and Sister Bednar“ (original emphasis))
How do you treat your sisters and your mother? The best place to practice the type of spouse you want to be is in your home.


How can I learn to sense even the beginning of sin and so repent early?“ (Elder Henry B Eyring, Do Not Delay, October 1999 General Conference)


In our own time, we have been warned with counsel of where to find safety from sin and from sorrow. One of the keys to recognizing those warnings is that they are repeated.“(Elder Henry B Eyring, “Finding Safety in Counsel, April 1997 General Conference)

Sunday, October 18, 2015

Church Services This Week at Ridge Crest Ward Northridge Stake Layton Utah 18 October 2015

Sacrament Service
One of the talks was based on President Uchtdorf priesthood session talk from General Conference, Be Not Afraid, Only Believe
"Brethren, let me be clear: there is nothing noble or impressive about being cynical. Skepticism is easy—anyone can do it. It is the faithful life that requires moral strength, dedication, and courage. Those who hold fast to faith are far more impressive than those who give in to doubt when mysterious questions or concerns arise."

Another speaker spoke on Carol McConkie's conference talk, “Here to Serve a Righteous Cause”.
"The early Church leaders and pioneers of the past pressed forward with heroic courage and determined faithfulness to establish the restored gospel and build temples where ordinances of exaltation could be performed. The pioneers of the present, meaning you and me, also press forward in faith, ‘to labor in [the Lord’s] vineyard for the salvation of the souls of men.’(Doctrine and Covenants 138:56)"

The whole world was against her and her husband,  but Emma Smith let strangers into their home.  We must follow the spirit and in ways that it tells us to do good, even though things may be in turmoil in our lives.

Another speaker spoke on grace.

The word proffers is related to, but stronger than the word offer. It is like being offered in such a way that it is hard to deny.

Grace opens the windows of heaven.

"I marvel to think that the Son of God would condescend to save us, as imperfect, impure, mistake-prone, and ungrateful as we often are. I have tried to understand the Savior’s Atonement with my finite mind, and the only explanation I can come up with is this: God loves us deeply, perfectly, and everlastingly. I cannot even begin to estimate ‘the breadth, and length, and depth, and height … [of] the love of Christ.’7

A powerful expression of that love is what the scriptures often call the grace of God—the divine assistance and endowment of strength by which we grow from the flawed and limited beings we are now into exalted beings of ‘truth and light, until [we are] glorified in truth and [know] all things.’8" (President  Dieter F Uchtdorf, The Gift of Grace, April 2015 General Conference)

Grace gets us from here to there.   Through enabling our efforts to get as far as we can and also making up the difference where we fall short when we have given our all.

Grace is not about just about obtaining something,  but is about becoming something.

Grace is like fuel in a car. We go as far as we can on the fuel we have and must constantly stop and obtain more grace. Grace is free,  but we have to stop and get it.

Alma 48:17
17 Yea, verily, verily I say unto you, if all men had been, and were, and ever would be, like unto Moroni, behold, the very powers of hell would have been shaken forever; yea, the devil would never have power over the hearts of the children of men.

We may think we could never be like Moroni,  but we can have Moroni moments. As we have more Moroni moments one day we will find we are closer to Moroni than we realize.   The same is true for being beyond that which is being like the Savior. It is hard,  but it is a step by step process, not all at once.   We don't get there in a one time event.

"Whenever Church members speak of consecration, it should be done reverently while acknowledging that each of us ‘come[s] short of the glory of God,’ some of us far short (Rom. 3:23). Even the conscientious have not arrived, but they sense the shortfall and are genuinely striving. Consolingly, God’s grace flows not only to those ‘who love [Him] and keep all [His] commandments,’ but likewise to those ‘that [seek] so to do’ (D&C 46:9)." (Elder Neal A Maxwell, “Swallowed Up in the Will of the Father”, October 1995 General Conference)

"Again, my brothers and sisters, our Heavenly Father is aware of our needs and will help us as we call upon Him for assistance. I believe that no concern of ours is too small or insignificant. The Lord is in the details of our lives." (President Thomas S Monson, “Consider the Blessings”, October 2012 General Conference)

Another element of God’s grace is the opening of the windows of heaven, through which God pours out blessings of power and strength, enabling us to achieve things that otherwise would be far beyond our reach. It is by God’s amazing grace that His children can overcome the undercurrents and quicksands of the deceiver, rise above sin, and ‘be perfect[ed] in Christ.’22

Before we were born, we accepted our Heavenly Father’s plan ‘by which [we] could obtain a physical body and gain earthly experience to progress toward perfection and ultimately realize [our] divine destiny as heirs of eternal life.’13 Of this premortal covenant, Elder John A. Widtsoe explained: ‘We agreed, right then and there, to be not only saviors for ourselves but … saviors for the whole human family. We went into a partnership with the Lord. The working out of the plan became then not merely the Father’s work, and the Savior’s work, but also our work. The least of us, the humblest, is in partnership with the Almighty in achieving the purpose of the eternal plan of salvation.’14


Another speaker
Sometimes we feel like we can tackle huge things, but sometimes the most basic things are difficult for us to do.

Naman had leprosy and was willing to do some great thing, but dipping in the river tripped him up.

The speaker talked about president Uchtdorf's talk on simplicity.

There great power in thanking Heavenly Father for the people in our life.

Start where we are. Don't get locked up because we aren't at a place we think we should be at.

Sunday School
My lesson on How can I show love for those I teach?
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What have you learned this week in your gospel studies?

Do you have any questions that you feel comfortable asking?

I had a thought this morning, let's see how this goes.  Who had been through a gay good drive through?  Describe that process for me.

What would it be like if you rattled off your order, quickly closed the window and drive on to the next window.  What if you ordered a cheeseburger with lettuce, tomato, and avocado, Spicey fries, and a lemonade and then get to the window and find out that cheese was a dollar more and lettuce and tomato were a dollar more and avocado was a dollar more and you didn't bring that much money. What if they were out of Spicey fries and just have you regular and would've order onion rings if you couldn't get Spicey fries?

The prices for everything were posted on the board at the ordering spot, but you didn't have time to read the board. The person on the microphone tried to tell you they were out of Spicey fries, but you didn't wait to hear if they had anything to tell you because you put in your order and were done.

Think about if you have every dealt with God that way. Have you ever not taken time to read the instructions he has given you and tales to him without giving him a chance to talk?

Any thoughts about this idea that you would like to share?

How can I show love for those I teach?

President Monson said,
"... we are all teachers in some respect, and we have a duty to teach to the best of our ability."

Dnc 88:77-78
77 And I give unto you a commandment that you shall teach one another the doctrine of the kingdom.
78 Teach ye diligently and my grace shall attend you, that you may be instructed more perfectly in theory, in principle, in doctrine, in the law of the gospel, in all things that pertain unto the kingdom of God, that are expedient for you to understand;

Thomas S. Monson, “Examples of Great Teachers,” Ensign, June 2007, 106–12; Liahona, June 2007, 74–80
President Monson shared a story :
"I share another example of the value of learning the Articles of Faith. Forty-five years ago I worked with a man named Sharman Hummel in the printing business in Salt Lake City. I once gave him a ride home from work and asked him how he came to receive his testimony of the gospel.
He responded, 'It’s interesting, Tom, that you asked me that question, for this very week my wife, my children, and I are going to the Manti Temple, there to be sealed for all eternity.'
"He continued his account: 'We lived in the East. I was journeying by bus to San Francisco to establish myself in a new printing company, and then I was going to send for my wife and children. All the way from New York City to Salt Lake City the bus trip was uneventful. But in Salt Lake City a young girl entered the bus—a Primary girl—who sat next to me. She was going to Reno, Nevada, there to have a visit with her aunt. As we journeyed westward, I noticed a billboard: ‘Visit the Mormon Sunday School this week.’
“I said to the little girl, ‘I guess there are a lot of Mormons in Utah, aren’t there?’
“She replied, ‘Yes, sir.’
“Then I said to her, ‘Are you a Mormon?’
“Again her reply: ‘Yes, sir.’”
Sharman Hummell then asked, “What do Mormons believe?” And that little girl recited the first article of faith; then she talked about it. Continuing, she gave him the second article of faith and talked about it. Then she gave him the third and the fourth and the fifth and the sixth and all of the Articles of Faith and talked about all of them. She knew them consecutively.
"Sharman Hummel said, 'When we got to Reno, and we let that little girl off into the arms of her aunt, I was profoundly impressed.'
He said, 'All the way to San Francisco I thought, ‘What is it that prompts that little girl to know her doctrine so well?’ When I arrived in San Francisco, the very first thing I did,' said Sharman, 'was to look through the yellow pages for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. I called the mission president, and he sent two missionaries to where I was staying. I became a member of the Church, my wife became a member, all of our children became members, in part because a Primary girl knew her Articles of Faith.'"

What do you think about this story?

President Monson quoted Francis of Assisi,
"Preach the Gospel at all times and when necessary use words."

Have any of you ever had anyone who it was hard to want share things about the gospel? Someone who perhaps behaves badly and you are just fed up with trying to get through to them that there is something better?

How do you deal with someone like that? How do you love them? How do you continue to teach them?

Mosiah 28:1-3
1 Now it came to pass that after the sons of Mosiah had done all these things, they took a small number with them and returned to their father, the king, and desired of him that he would grant unto them that they might, with these whom they had selected, go up to the land of Nephi that they might preach the things which they had heard, and that they might impart the word of God to their brethren, the Lamanites
2 That perhaps they might bring them to the knowledge of the Lord their God, and convince them of the iniquity of their fathers; and that perhaps they might cure them of their hatred towards the Nephites, that they might also be brought to rejoice in the Lord their God, that they might become friendly to one another, and that there should be no more contentions in all the land which the Lord their God had given them.
3 Now they were desirous that salvation should be declared to every creature, for they could not bear that any human soul should perish; yea, even the very thoughts that any soul should endure endless torment did cause them to quake and tremble.

The Lamanites hated the Nephites. Why would they want to go live among those people and try to teach them? Wouldn't that be a pain? Wouldn't that be a depressing struggle?

But the Lord was with them and they had success.





Most of our ways that we can teach and strengthen others are going to be much easier. They are going to be more about paying attention to what is happening around us and acting on what we see and as the spirit guides is on what to do.

Teaching Youth How to Lead in the Savior’s Way, October 2015 Ensign
Sister Carol F. McConkie
First Counselor in the Young Women General Presidency said,
"When I was 14, I met some young women who were excellent leaders. At that time, my family moved across the United States and became members of a new ward. I do not remember who served in the Mia Maid class presidency, but I clearly remember that the young women were particularly kind to me. They sincerely embraced a scared and scrawny new girl as a long-lost friend and made me feel welcome. Coming from Delaware, where I was the only Mormon girl in my junior high school and where the only other Mormon girl I knew lived an hour’s drive from my home, I thought, “This must be what heaven is like!”
For the first time in my life, I had a circle of friends who lived the standards in For the Strength of Youth, invited me to participate in activities, and shared their testimonies of the gospel with me. Their examples of loving-kindness did more to secure me to The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints at that time than any talk or lesson could have done. In their love and Christlike light, they were the message of the gospel of Christ, and they were the ones to lead and guide me into His fold."

Any thoughts on what sister McConkie shared?



Sometimes the place we will need to pay attention to what is happening and what the spirit tells us about what someone needs may be in our own home.

Maybe a sibling or parent is being grumpy and we might be tempted to be offended or let our feelings get hurt.

Is it hard to hear the spirit when our family members are in our space or being unkind?

How have you had success in not letting yourself react badly to grumpy family members and instead help bring them comfort and give them love?

Times like these are moments when you can teach with the savior's with our being preachy.   How is this a time to teach and how do you do it without lecturing?
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Elders Quorum
Teaching of Presidents of the Church: Ezra Taft Benson - Chapter 19 - Leadership
What are qualities of good leaders?

Leading by example is very powerful. Just like in sharing the gospel, most times our example teaches more than our words or our nudging.

Sunday, October 11, 2015

Church Services This Week at Ridge Crest Ward Northridge Stake Layton Utah 11 October 2015

Sacrament Service

Sunday School
My teaching partners lesson on plan of salvation and Christ and the Atonement.
What would we like to tell a friend about Christ?
What would you like to ask Christ?
What is a scripture about Christ that you like?


Elders Quorum
The light of Christ
Something you are born with.  Kind of like a conscience.


"Instead of asking for riches or a long life, Solomon asked for “an understanding heart to judge thy people, that I may discern between good and bad” (1 Kings 3:9).”


"Though Solomon was indeed very wise and did many great things, he did not finish strong. Sadly, later in his life, “Solomon did evil in the sight of the Lord, and went not fully after the Lord” (1 Kings 11:6)."


We hear about many people who start strong, but finish weak.


Many people serve strong missions, but fizzle out.


"How often do we make resolutions in January and pursue them with red-hot determination for a few days, a few weeks, or even a few months only to find that by October, the flame of our commitment is little more than cold ash?"

Our standard is Christ. That is the bar we need to aim for, but our journey should be a series of bars. A last night be the representation of those bars.